kficanon ([personal profile] kficanon) wrote2012-11-30 11:48 am
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(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
it's bad to kiss someone you don't intend to date especially if you have mutual feelings, right? ):

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
do you mean mutual feelings of not wanting to date or

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
mutual feelings for each other idk if she wants to date or not

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
mutual feelings for each other or mutual feelings about not wanting to date?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
for each other ):

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
ooh, that's kind of a sticky situation, then. :( i'd refrain from it for now? usually i'm all for kissing, but do what you need to do to make things less complicated!

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
i just really really want to. today i pretty much walked her to her door, holding hands, and she was like "do you want to go somewhere else?" and i made some lame excuse and bolted because in that moment i seriously wanted to pull her close and kiss her ):

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
i would have kissed her by now, anon. ;; but i have no willpower where you might have some!

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
well! on top of being my multi-year crush she's also one of my very few and probably closest and one of my longest friends and i really, really don't want to hurt her (she openly likes girls i openly like boys and only a few people know i...actually like girls more?) but lol my willpower has been draining year by year. we live super close to each other rn (like 5 minutes away) so ): it's a bad idea though right? she's going to be in another country for four months. is it still a bad idea? probably?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
man, i don't know what to tell you. :( this is the kind of thing that could make or break a relationship. if she's going away for a few months, then you might want to wait until she gets back? but at the same time, if you don't kiss her before then and then she leaves for a few months, the pining might grow to critical levels. :(

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
well, before this she was in china for three months which was the worst because that was probably the longest i've ever gone without seeing her in...eight years. these four months are going to break me ): i should probably wait though. maybe four months will give me enough time to cool my head. alternatively get a boyfriend hahaha...

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
wait so you both like each other, but you (both?) don't want to date, and she's going away for four months. is that the situation?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
both like each other, i don't really want to come out to my family, it's been going on for years, and now she's going to be away for four months but that's kind of ancillary to it all because she'll be back and i'll still be as hopelessly in love as i have been for the past few years.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
oh. hmm. so you want to be with her but not really, because of family (and friends, i assume)?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
family ):

also i'm not very brave and i know a lot of really homophobic people so...

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
you could always try to change and dgaf about what others think, but that's really hard and it's a long process, haha (going through it right now and it's scary as poop seeing other people, but then i think—we probably won't even see each other after graduation, so who cares?)

have you talked with her about how you feel in regards to coming out?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, but i feel a lot of responsibility to get married and have a kid etc etc because that's what i've always assumed i'll do and it's not like i'm opposed to it? i honestly act like i don't care most of the time and am pretty casual about it but ):

noooooooooooooooo. i don't think i've ever said "by the way i'm bisexual" to her before i've just never hid it either haha ;; every now and then i feel like MAYBE i could date her and MAYBE it would work out but i feel like it would never be long term and permanent and she deserves someone who is so much better than me

(Anonymous) 2012-12-03 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
ah ;; we're like completely different in that sense lmao i'm the kind of girl who's like "yeah, i'll go out and live my dream of being an artist and exploring the world and i won't ever settle down!!" despite constant pressure from my mom and her "you're gonna grow up and marry a rich man and have 2.5 kids and work a 9 to 5 job"

the way i see it is you can be with her now and see where it goes, or you can let it pass and hopefully never see this part of your life as something you immensely regret and filled with constant "what if's";;
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