i see the difference being telling someone something about a guy in the heat of the moment vs a guy i've been crushing on for a longer time. the second one is more off-limits while the first is pretty much a free for all
i like this reasoning! yes i think i shall keep this frame of thought but the thing that also annoys me is that my other friends recognize her sensitive issues and not mine, because i used to keep it buried in. so they make concessions for her but not for me but this is my fault and not anyone else's even though i've discussed my issues with them recently. things will be fine
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-28 04:18 am (UTC)(link)i like this reasoning! yes i think i shall keep this frame of thought but the thing that also annoys me is that my other friends recognize her sensitive issues and not mine, because i used to keep it buried in. so they make concessions for her but not for me but this is my fault and not anyone else's even though i've discussed my issues with them recently. things will be fine