imo it was a bitch move but i wouldn't blame her because everyone views things differently, which isn't to say she wouldn't take into account that you feel hurt about it.
if i was your friend i'd rather know now than have you simmer about it for days, without a clue as to why, maybe with you (unintentionally) being passive-aggressive in the process.
i know i'm being passive-aggressive and i'm trying to do it subtly enough to be felt because she's really passive-aggressive too and two can play the game. but now i feel bad because what's the point in doing all this. i just don't want to talk about it because i honestly don't think she'll see what the big deal is when to me it is. it's more than things being about a guy, it's about me and how i view myself and we've already had an awkward heart-to-heart once and i don't want another one because i felt she was a little cold during that conversation. sorry for the tldr D:
if she's not as invested in your relationship as you are, let it slide. it's okay. not every friend can be your best friend. but that doesn't mean you can't have one, or more.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-28 03:42 am (UTC)(link)if i was your friend i'd rather know now than have you simmer about it for days, without a clue as to why, maybe with you (unintentionally) being passive-aggressive in the process.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-28 03:50 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2012-10-28 03:54 am (UTC)(link)if she's not as invested in your relationship as you are, let it slide. it's okay. not every friend can be your best friend. but that doesn't mean you can't have one, or more.