lol same as above anon: tentacles. except i didn't used to like it, i thought it was too weird even for me. but then i actually read a well-written tentacle fic, and... yeah. i was wrong. yay for kinks i didn't know i had?
maybe i will also go with tentacles because my other problematic fave kinks i can at least trace back to real life roots but tentacles are like *shrugging emoji*
"trace back to real life roots" such as? if you're comfortable sharing, anon.
three of my kinks in fics, or life in general, are results of how i grow up >< sometimes i don't know if this should make me sad or "whatever" since they're satisfactory
but i definitely think my interest in dubcon/noncon stems from my earliest sexual experiences being coercive/not fully consensual, though i don't really think of that as a maladaptive coping mechanism tbh i just kind of roll with it without thinking. this is limited to just fic though.
that's one of mines >< and kind of the reason is the same. except mine is more to being forced into being submissive in the relationship as whole rather than just the sexual side of it. it was my first experience as well.
and just to clarify, what i meant in "life in general" is the consensual participation of my partner in doing those kinks is required and being mentioned clearly.
same here, and i've often wondered if it might be a coping mechanism too but i'm not sure how to tell so i just go with it too. shrugs. if it is a coping mechanism, it's working, so i won't bother questioning it lol
it's the same for me, i haven't done much kinky anything irl but i've found out what i prefer through fic. though some stuff i only like reading about and not actually doing lol
i once read this shinee fic that was kind of sort of beastiality where key (iirc??) was in love with jong (i think??) and kind of transferred his lust to jong's horse or smth like that?? idk it was awhile ago and idt there was any actual horse sex in it but.... it was hot...
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-07 04:19 am (UTC)(link)three of my kinks in fics, or life in general, are results of how i grow up ><
sometimes i don't know if this should make me sad or "whatever" since they're satisfactory
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-07 04:23 am (UTC)(link)but i definitely think my interest in dubcon/noncon stems from my earliest sexual experiences being coercive/not fully consensual, though i don't really think of that as a maladaptive coping mechanism tbh i just kind of roll with it without thinking. this is limited to just fic though.
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-07 05:08 am (UTC)(link)and just to clarify, what i meant in "life in general" is the consensual participation of my partner in doing those kinks is required and being mentioned clearly.
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-07 03:58 am (UTC)(link)this is why i love fics. they're as enlightening? as other things in life could be.
and to anons above, links to those hot fics you red? ;_;
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