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Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

isn't demisexuality a mix of asexuality and bisexuality for special snowflakes?

Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

demisexuality means you're only sexually attracted to people you have deep emotional connections with and i've never seen anyone claim that label without a whole mess of slut shaming attached to it

Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

rme everybody wants a label that they can use these days

Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

exactly! and i think labeling things is super useful but you know, for people who are actually marginalized

Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

being oppressed is the new internet fad.

+1

[(Anonymous)]

what's this transethnic and otherkin and demisexual shit

Re: +1

[(Anonymous)]

i once saw a tumblr debate on if "everyone" or "everybody" was more offensive.

everyone assumes that all have one identity and everybody assumes that all identify as a physical shape.

:|

Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

implying there aren't ~heteromantic demisexuals~ out there

it's more like just asexuality with exceptions which is an insult to asexuals t b h

Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

+1,000,000

i feel like grey-a and demisexual people and people who still have and enjoy sex or whatever that means are co-opting a label that is extremely useful

Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

exactly

i disagree with the vitrolic tumblr discourse that shames asexuals (i agree that heteromantic asexuals don't deal with the same shit queer asexuals do but also i don't ever see anyone talking about queer asexuals and that's a problem right there) and the whole sex-positivity moment (which has been co opted by leftist dudes using it as a way to pressure women into having sex with them) and demisexuals are definitely co opting something that's not really theirs

Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

yeah, i disagree with heteroromantic asexuals trying to claim the queer label for themselves and the whole concept of sexual privilege is a little, well, tryhard? but asexuality is a very underrepresented and misunderstood thing and trying to squeeze yourself under this umbrella makes it really hard to be taken seriously, i guess is what i'm trying to say

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[(Anonymous)]

clapping for this comment rn tbh

Re: http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/74410608.html

[(Anonymous)]

isn't asexuality just being attracted to personalities? i don't really see how demisexuality is different from that.

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[(Anonymous)]

because demisexuals want to have sex sometimes but not with everyone

that's it, that's the label :|

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[(Anonymous)]

ide..