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part thirty seven

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i still find demisexuality ridiculous, come at me

isn't demisexuality a mix of asexuality and bisexuality for special snowflakes?

demisexuality means you're only sexually attracted to people you have deep emotional connections with and i've never seen anyone claim that label without a whole mess of slut shaming attached to it

rme everybody wants a label that they can use these days

exactly! and i think labeling things is super useful but you know, for people who are actually marginalized

being oppressed is the new internet fad.

what's this transethnic and otherkin and demisexual shit

i once saw a tumblr debate on if "everyone" or "everybody" was more offensive.

everyone assumes that all have one identity and everybody assumes that all identify as a physical shape.

:|

implying there aren't ~heteromantic demisexuals~ out there

it's more like just asexuality with exceptions which is an insult to asexuals t b h

+1,000,000

i feel like grey-a and demisexual people and people who still have and enjoy sex or whatever that means are co-opting a label that is extremely useful

exactly

i disagree with the vitrolic tumblr discourse that shames asexuals (i agree that heteromantic asexuals don't deal with the same shit queer asexuals do but also i don't ever see anyone talking about queer asexuals and that's a problem right there) and the whole sex-positivity moment (which has been co opted by leftist dudes using it as a way to pressure women into having sex with them) and demisexuals are definitely co opting something that's not really theirs

yeah, i disagree with heteroromantic asexuals trying to claim the queer label for themselves and the whole concept of sexual privilege is a little, well, tryhard? but asexuality is a very underrepresented and misunderstood thing and trying to squeeze yourself under this umbrella makes it really hard to be taken seriously, i guess is what i'm trying to say

clapping for this comment rn tbh

isn't asexuality just being attracted to personalities? i don't really see how demisexuality is different from that.

because demisexuals want to have sex sometimes but not with everyone

that's it, that's the label :|

ide..

not gonna come at you because i agree, people should be able to have as much or as little sex as they desire but pretending like demisexuality isn't just being selective with who you sleep with (which a ton of people are anyway without calling themselves demisexual) is ridiculous

plus the vast majority of demisexuals i see are women which don't even open that can of fucking worms

yeah like there's nothing wrong with not being attracted to strangers but it's so like special snowflake, i'm not like those sluts who have one night stands. i'm sure it's not this way for everyone who calls themselves that but there's this judgment towards other people attached to the label from what i've seen.

but it's so like special snowflake, i'm not like those sluts who have one night stands

yeah this is what i see too

yep :|

thanks for finding me ridiculous, but I'll leave you alone because whatever random person on the internet

are you demisexual

because i don't think picking on demisexual people is the right thing to do esp since most demisexual identifiers are women but i do find the concept of demisexuality and how people defend it ridiculous

i don't find you ridiculous, i find the concept of demisexuality ridiculous

look, anon, it's totally fine for you to claim whatever label you want but as the anon above me said i am also perfectly within my right to find the concept of demisexuality ridiculous because that's actually how a vast majority of average, "sexual" people function.

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