da enjoying something that's problematic doesn't mean pretending it never happened. you can acknowledge the issue and critically examine it, while continuing to enjoy whatever the thing is
same da and i think the distinction is to not use those acknowledgements (e.g. 'he's young and a douchebag') as an excuse to then say the behaviour is okay
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-25 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-25 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)then again i still stan the problematic oppars so.