i usually don't realize until after and then my brain kinda goes "oh that was kind of unusual, was i being hit on??"
one time it was just really really obvious and the guy was really creepy and for some reason i just... kept laughing and encouraging him because my default mode is polite + happy so whenever he made some gross statement i would just laugh and not say anything and i ended up giving him my number????? i didn't reply to any of his calls/texts and i ended up avoiding that mall for a few months. or, well, i'm still avoiding that mall.
lol anon u sound just like my friend. we were having internship in this company and she gave her number to the security guy there. he kept texting her and asking her to have lunch tgt lol. we teased her for months after that bc that was so stupid
crying omg i feel her pain, i felt really really stupid and afterwards everyone was telling me all these excuses i could've given him but at the time i was just... too shocked to do anything else but like tell the complete truth about everything he was asking me.
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-20 05:01 am (UTC)(link)one time it was just really really obvious and the guy was really creepy and for some reason i just... kept laughing and encouraging him because my default mode is polite + happy so whenever he made some gross statement i would just laugh and not say anything and i ended up giving him my number????? i didn't reply to any of his calls/texts and i ended up avoiding that mall for a few months. or, well, i'm still avoiding that mall.
i am not good at high pressure situations u_u
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-20 05:15 am (UTC)(link)establish self defense mechanism asap pls
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