thankfully we're anon since this is gonna reach tmi territory and quick, but i didn't have an orgasm til i was 18. i tried masturbating more than a few times, but even though i read scarleteen and all that stuff and knew where my clit was, i didn't realize i had to think about sexy things while i masturbated. seriously.

relatedly this is how i didn't realize i was gay til i was 18.