i like it slow, and i like sensory details! i like dirty talk but only if it works for the characters, so usually lay off. i'm a sucker for any description of noises people make, the more desperate the better.
i like it when sounds are described, whether the sounds made during sex or people moaning/gasping/etc. also really really well-crafted dirty talk, a lot of emphasis on the visual and sensory aspects. waxing lyrical turns me off
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