body shaming? that sounds like some sjw bullshit. if he was concerned for his sister's health, that's his prerogative. he might have gone about it rudely and, again, i'm not defending his actions, but i'm asking for fairness. it's not fair that he's being criticized and nana is being praised.
remove your stan glasses for like 5 seconds anon. he is saying being fat is embarrassing and he doesn't wanna be associated with that, if he did it for her own good he could've helped her in other ways.
nana just told a guy to shut up. and it was playful so idgu
i don't "stan" himchan. i don't listen to rap groups, so bap aren't even on my radar most of the time. maybe you should remove your stan glasses and see why nana is in the wrong.
i just don't find rap pleasant to listen to. i prefer singing. if bap were an r'n'b group, then i might listen to them (so don't tell me i'm being racist), but since they seem to rap most of the time, i don't listen to them.
he has his own opinions and is free to express him. it's not like he went up to a random girl on the street and told her she was fat. plus, the cultural context is something you can't deny. if asian cultures are usually skinny, then of course they'd express concern over an overweight person. it's not my job to tell asian cultures they're wrong.
as a korean that gets repeatedly shit on for becoming too "american" aka too fat and too tan to be considered as a pretty korean girl i feel like i can confidently say fuck the cultural context because it's rude and demeaning and sexist and i'm not telling you to "tell asian cultures they're wrong" but notice that what he said was fucking rude and uncalled for and even more so because if we're talking about cultural context he said that to his older sister
that's your opinion. i have mine. let's agree to disagree.
and a tip: stop being so confrontational during discussions. you're throwing all this jargon around and you sound so tense and it's off-putting. no one is going to take you seriously if you're screaming at them.
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-06 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)nana just told a guy to shut up. and it was playful so idgu
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-06 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)HE SAID THAT TO HIS OLDER SISTER WHAT PART OF THAT DOES NOT MAKE ALARMS GO OFF IN YOUR HEAD
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-06 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)and a tip: stop being so confrontational during discussions. you're throwing all this jargon around and you sound so tense and it's off-putting. no one is going to take you seriously if you're screaming at them.
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-06 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)thanks for the tip.
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