i think you're sort of contradicting yourself with the "getting riled up for no reason" part. a lot of ppl who call problematic things out, like op of this thread, are accused of just getting riled up for nothing. also ppl have very different views of that counts as "no reason". sometimes, i think it's better to call stuff out and then take the discussion from there than to, like many do, just tell other what they can and can't be offended by.