i'd draw the line at malicious intent because i'm almost sure she didn't feel that way but i don't think she was trying to read the guy for me lol. you know how there are certain friendships that simmer with undercurrents of competitiveness? this is one of them
i mentioned this in another thread but i don't want to bring it up because it reenforces my self esteem issues that i don't think she understands. i'll just move on from this but just be more careful next time
ouch, you might wanna watch from now on? i've only dealt with them when it came to academic competitiveness, but i imagine one more focused on social-ness (?) would be far more straining. :( i hope things work out for you though, although i can't help but think that maybe removing yourself from that situation would help in case that undercurrent is affecting you too negatively. good luck?
this is why i try not to go clubbing with her because when guys dance/talk to me and not her, i can really feel the angst in the air and it's not worth it. ty anon, and i wouldn't (i already don't but it's a ~social obligation~) voluntarily choose to go to these sorts of events any more unless forced to :3
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-28 03:55 am (UTC)(link)i mentioned this in another thread but i don't want to bring it up because it reenforces my self esteem issues that i don't think she understands. i'll just move on from this but just be more careful next time
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