...i'm naturally a forgiving person. i'll honestly forgive just about anything, even though i might move along with my relationship. i'd like to see them "brought back" from that, tbh, but i know some ppl because of abuse in their pasts/other things it's just too triggering for them? or that is what they said.
it's sad. :( as contrived as the apology from jaejoong was, i doubt his agency would have let him say more than that. if i was in charge of his PR i don't think i would have. though i would have made him go into counseling or something...except s.korea really isn't into that, or so i've heard...
i had no idea this was triggering anything? i just thought people were offended that they would dare to hit fans that basically made them who they are?
tbh i tried really hard not to read/look into any details back then when everything fell apart. what was his apology like? and why do you think he needed counseling?
i didn't listen to the recording, but i heard it was super terrible, so. yeah. his apology was...just that. an apology and an "i won't do it again" and i'm "reflecting". basic korean stance on like...everything, no offense intended. basically people said it wasn't "sincere" enough, esp. ifans.
and i guess...i just feel like getting frustrated with someone to the point where you hit and swear at them, especially in the instance where they aren't going to go away should be talked out with someone.
also/mostly i wish the police/government/whomever would get their asses in motion and do something about sasaengs :|
that seems like a really american response? the whole seek rehab thing. not that i'm saying that's not a good thing, it just doesn't seem as common in korea?
don't quote me on this lol, but my korean parents were recently talking about how it wasn't that long ago that korean people began to acknowledge (i can't remember the name of it - some mental condition) as an illness and not being possessed by the devil
i've never said it before, just because people reacted so violently about the whole fan hitting thing, but i honestly feel like them hitting the sasaeng fans wasn't /that/ bad.
didn't they say they could practically pick out the same girls stalking them again and again? girls that would go crazy trying to find their cell phone numbers so they would always have to get new ones and girls that would follow them everywhere and intrude on their family and bother them even when they were trying to rest
i guess because i'm not really upset about it means i agree? i'm not /for/ hitting, but s. korea does a shit ton of it :| it's almost knee jerk reaction to everything, i saw so much of it when i was there. not an excuse, but perhaps a reason.
yeah, pretty much. all of the above, literally shitting on their doorsteps to mark their territory...like. i can see how a person could snap from that. i don't see why authorities don't do something about it.
is it weird if i say it didn't even look that bad? my korean friends and i joke about being beat as children all the time because it's true. getting hit is so common in korean culture (although it seems to be different with the new parents) and if we got broken up each time it happened we'd probably all be wrecks
...that happened? please tell me that's not true. btw i'll never get over 2pm blood letters holy fuck
i believe it. i know it's joked about a lot on variety shows and stuff, although, haha, everything is made fun/light of on variety.
yes, unfortunately :|| it was on that interview one station did of a sasaeng. :( those letters were the worst. ugh, my stomach turns thinking about it. so gross (never mind unsanitary.) i can't imagine opening it and figuring out what it was and yuck. that person has a sick mind.
and it was only recently that it was made illegal to hit students in school right? :\
omg i can't even that's the worst thing i have ever heard. . did 2pm ever receive the blood letters? i thought pictures were just posted online. lol 2pm seem so down to earth, i can't imagine the reaction it made. i can't believe the trend it started too. girls using their period blood made me want to throw up
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:05 am (UTC)(link)it's sad. :( as contrived as the apology from jaejoong was, i doubt his agency would have let him say more than that. if i was in charge of his PR i don't think i would have. though i would have made him go into counseling or something...except s.korea really isn't into that, or so i've heard...
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:08 am (UTC)(link)tbh i tried really hard not to read/look into any details back then when everything fell apart. what was his apology like? and why do you think he needed counseling?
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:12 am (UTC)(link)i didn't listen to the recording, but i heard it was super terrible, so. yeah. his apology was...just that. an apology and an "i won't do it again" and i'm "reflecting". basic korean stance on like...everything, no offense intended. basically people said it wasn't "sincere" enough, esp. ifans.
and i guess...i just feel like getting frustrated with someone to the point where you hit and swear at them, especially in the instance where they aren't going to go away should be talked out with someone.
also/mostly i wish the police/government/whomever would get their asses in motion and do something about sasaengs :|
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:14 am (UTC)(link)didn't they say they could practically pick out the same girls stalking them again and again? girls that would go crazy trying to find their cell phone numbers so they would always have to get new ones and girls that would follow them everywhere and intrude on their family and bother them even when they were trying to rest
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:22 am (UTC)(link)yeah, pretty much. all of the above, literally shitting on their doorsteps to mark their territory...like. i can see how a person could snap from that. i don't see why authorities don't do something about it.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:27 am (UTC)(link)...that happened? please tell me that's not true. btw i'll never get over 2pm blood letters holy fuck
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:33 am (UTC)(link)yes, unfortunately :|| it was on that interview one station did of a sasaeng. :( those letters were the worst. ugh, my stomach turns thinking about it. so gross (never mind unsanitary.) i can't imagine opening it and figuring out what it was and yuck. that person has a sick mind.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:45 am (UTC)(link)omg i can't even that's the worst thing i have ever heard. . did 2pm ever receive the blood letters? i thought pictures were just posted online. lol 2pm seem so down to earth, i can't imagine the reaction it made. i can't believe the trend it started too. girls using their period blood made me want to throw up
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