they still might not see it, or not be bothered by it, tho?

the current tone with comments is that even small suggestions for improvement will be taken the wrong way and then i'd rather not comment at all
ita, i think most people aren't used to taking crit and tbh i don't blame them bec it takes some time getting used to. maybe one could send them a pm and very gently ask if they want crit? tho there is a stigma in saying no to such a question too so idk.