ik it's really hard! i think both taking and giving crit is a skill in a way that must be practiced. especially giving (and it's so interesting how different betas have so different way of critting lol.) like what to crit? how to crit? what is important and what should you just not mention? i think so much of it boils down to taste and also i think it's so important to find a beta who is at the same level as you, otherwise it's hard to make it work. it's hard!! lol