i think bullying is def a lot lighter than the kind of things like dub con/shame. i feel like with sex related themes, a lot of writers (me too probably) would be too focused on making it sexy + using the illicit part of it to make it hotter, and kinda gloss over the problematic aspects of it u__u have you read jijek's baekyeol fic? i think she'd do a rly good job of it, but i think it's a sock + she only has one fic but it hurts so good ;;