you've nailed exactly why i hate tumblr based sj discourse, especially concerning the term privilege

i also think people think that if they lack privilege in one area then it absolves them of responsibility when dealing with people who lack privileges that they themselves do have if that makes sense

like white queers who think they can't be racist, shit like that, tumblr sj makes it so that we're all on an equal playing field re: privilege and "no one should play oppression olympics" and shit like that when, no, actually, that's not how it works