one of the main problems i have with the tumblr sj movement is that it wants to divide everything into this set of privileges. so that being sexual is a privilege or, like, not otherkin and a.) not everything can be divided up this easily into privilege and not privilege and b.) the more you use a term the less power it has. when i first started reading up on peggy mcintosh many years ago it was such a startling idea and i think if my first exposure to sj was tumblr now i would even have bothered reading in depth about anything.