my main girl group is f(x), sooo it's not like they're doing a lot (sob), but there's usually something or other going on. victoria looked so gorgeous accepting her award. i might have teared up, don't tell anyone.

it's nice to hear someone else with the same point of view. i always feel like a debbie downer to the extreme whenever i point out how male gazey things are, and to some degree i am envious of those who can turn off that part of their brain when they want . it's like someone gave me contacts that make the world seem shittier, but i can't manage to get them out of my eyes. (which isn't to say queer women should feel guilty over liking these things or not like these things, just that i think it's important to recognize where these depictions come from and what their aims are)